callmecuntdestroyer:

Lol So doing this with my child.

(Source: daydreaming-nonsense)

demonsheep replied to your post: demonsheep replied to your post: Your reply was…

Those are all out there…sadly. It’s good to call out people, hate is hate in the end no matter which groups of people are on the ends. And you def. don’t fight hate with hate.

in the words of paris hilton (according to my friend juan) “an eye for an eye makes everyone blind”

just went to the bathroom

i was so sweaty omg lol

i had to change my shirt

omg ew lol

don’t get me worked up

i sweat　

mimi dae roscoe, social justice blogger　

morrisonsidararochanavongwilai replied to your post: Your reply was fantastic, and everything that blogs like that and the other similar ones all need to hear!

OMG GORL LMAOOOO

you’ve already sent a nice message sid

badtvblog:

This is the American Idol finale I did not edit this. This is really how it aired. I would not lie to you ever.

edited but hilarious lol omg

demonsheep replied to your post: Your reply was fantastic, and everything that blogs like that and the other similar ones all need to hear!

Haha, I can understand, I’ve been put into that situation too. Sometimes tumblr is really a hateful place, especially when it’s anything about race, gender, sexual orientation, religion…etc etc.

It’s crazy. And I would honestly have called out a crazy feminist blog bashing men or a blog bashing white people.

I really would have. I call out my parents all the time about racist remarks they make because I know they weren’t raised to be hateful (well, my stepmom kind of was, she was born hateful).

at this point, no one can fucking tell me that i don’t know my shit

i don’t care who you are

find one fucking thing wrong with what i just said

you can’t

if DTSPS (or anyone for that matter) is still going to try and portray me as a bad person, or a bigot, or a homophobe, or anything that says I don’t give a shit about equal rights (especially for the LGBTQ community), they can kiss my black ass.

i have never typed anything I thought was more true and logical and fucking right in my whole damn life.

dumbthingsstraightpeoplesay:

mimosamemoirs:

I am actually really surprised that the dumbthingsstraightpeoplesay blog is basically just a hate blog. That’s all it is.

The person running it honestly doesn’t think that it’s their job to educate people and change people’s opinions about the LGBTQ community.

If you’re not going to do anything about your oppression, you don’t have a right to bitch because you are just letting it happen. If you don’t want to take on the job of fighting for your rights, you’re basically oppressing yourself.

And if you’re going to oppress yourself/let the oppression happen, you’ve lost every right to be angry and complain.

You can’t really expect someone else to take on your cause for you. It’s your cause. Why would anyone else care if you act like you don’t?

I mean, if you want to just sit and complain and not do anything about it, your oppressors and everyone else are just gonna let you sit and complain.

If someone is oppressing you, they obviously aren’t going to have the mindset to be like,”Woah, I should really educate myself more because those people I’m oppressing look really upset about all the oppression.”

That’s not how the world works. You gotta stand up for your cause and educate people. Then those people will start educating other people.

I’ll say it again, if you’re not going to do anything about your oppression but sit there and be angry, you don’t get to bitch and moan about your oppression. If you cared, you’d do something about it.

Be active, not passive.

You heard it here first, everyone!!!

If I don’t take upon my self to educate people about why they shouldn’t be oppressing, it’s my own fault!!! 

The only reason people of the LGBTQ+ community is oppressed is because we haven’t educated people enough. 

(Also, if this is what you think I stand for, start at the beginning and read my blog all over again)

You seem to enjoy twisting my words. I didn’t say you’re oppressed because you haven’t educated.

I’m saying that unless you educate, you’ll continue to be oppressed.

My problem with you is that you think it’s not your job to educate people about the LGBTQ community. You just want to bitch about it.

Thinking it’s not your job to stand up for the LGBTQ community when you’re a part of it is basically saying you want to be trampled on.

Which I think you want to do. You seem to enjoy playing the victim and bitching.

And that’s not a statement about that LGBTQ community. That’s a statement about you specifically.

You specifically, the person running the blog, don’t have a right to bitch about being oppressed if you don’t think it’s your job to fight against the oppression.

And for the record, just bitching and moaning about your oppression is not fighting against oppression.

That’s being a little baby.

It’s okay, though. Twist my words. It’s really immature. I haven’t twisted your words once. I have take things I have actually seen you say/post on your blog and I’ve called you out on them. I didn’t twist them. I actually copy/pasted stuff you said.

It’s not your fault you’re oppressed. You didn’t ask for the oppression. You didn’t choose to be oppressed.

But you’re choosing to just sit and be passive and not do anything about your oppression, that’s just as bad as asking to be oppressed.

I’ve said it before, I’ll say it again, if you want to stand up for something, if you want people to grant you equal rights and treat you fairly, you can’t expect them to just do that on their own.

You have to take responsibility for what you think is right. You have to be at the forefront. You educate people and they in turn will educate people.

When you say that it’s not your job to take on your equal rights cause, that makes it look like you don’t care. And if you don’t care, why would anyone else?

I’ve had people passionate about LGBTQ rights educate me. And I in turn try my best to educate people. And I do that because if I had been born 50 years earlier, I’d be in the same boat.

I’d be having to fight just to say that I deserved to go to a school good enough for white kids. I deserved to have books that weren’t falling apart because white kids had books that weren’t falling apart. If I wanted to marry a white guy (and i’m actually mostly attracted to white guys) I deserved to be able to marry a white guy because i’m fucking good enough for a white guy.

If I’d been born, 160 years earlier, I’d be having to fight to say that I wasn’t a piece of fucking property, I was a goddamn person. If I was married, it wouldn’t have meant anything either because property can’t get married.

I would have had to fight for that. I couldn’t have just sat there and waited for white people to figure it out on their own that I was just as good as them I deserved to be treated that way.

Even today, I’m not necessarily considered as good as a white person because statistically, I make less money than white people.

Statistically, I also make less money because I’m a woman.

I can’t just sit back and think that someone else is going to take on what I think is right, my rights to be treated as a goddamn human being. I have to be up there too or else no one is going to care.

If you want equal rights as an LGBTQ person, you have to be up there demanding those rights. If you’re not going to be there, sit down, and shut up because if you’re not going to stand up for yourself, you don’t get to say anything.

So, really, try to twist my fucking words again. Tell me how wrong I am. Tell me I don’t understand oppression because all I am is a “heterosexual”

I fucking know oppression and I know that what you are doing is wrong.

The whole of the women’s movement doesn’t demand equal rights by bashing men. The ones who do, weaken the fucking movement because the people who are against us use that against us and that’s what they use to tear us down.

The whole of the black civil rights movement didn’t demand equal rights by bashing whites (mostly because we’d be fucking killed). The ones who did bash whites, became the poster children for our movement and we had to fight just that much harder to demand equal schools, equal supplies, equal jobs, the right to go into any damn store we wanted, the right to use any damn water fountain we wanted, and get this the right to either 1) marry who we wanted or 2) have our fucking marriages recognized by the damn country.

We did that without bashing the ones who were oppressing us. We were angry, we were pissed the fuck off, but a strong movement, a successful movement, is usually a movement that says “We’re fucking here, you’re gonna give us what we fucking want, but don’t for a goddamn second think we are going to stoop to your goddamn level to do what we have to do.”

So twist my words again. If I didn’t prove my point ten-fold just now, you are the most close-minded idiot I have ever met and you’re no better than the state of North Carolina.

ugh why can’t i stop liking chad

i would marry that fucking boy

sigh

he’s too perfect for words